Finding What Sets You on Fire: Discovering Your Purpose
- Jennifer Rackliff
- Apr 30
- 2 min read
So many of us are moving through life checking all the boxes—career, family, success—but still wondering: Is this really it?
If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. And more importantly—you’re not stuck. Finding your purpose isn’t about fitting into someone else’s mold. It’s about uncovering what makes you come alive.
Whether you’re pivoting in your career, feeling disconnected from your goals, or simply craving more meaning in your days, this journey is for you.
🔥 Identify What Lights You Up
Your passions are breadcrumbs. What are the things that excite you, energize you, or make you lose track of time?
Start there. Don’t worry about making it “productive” or “profitable” right now—just notice what brings you joy.
🌟 Reflect on Your Strengths
What are you naturally good at? What do people often come to you for?
Your unique gifts—paired with what you love—are powerful indicators of purpose.
🌍 Consider the Impact You Want to Make
Purpose and impact go hand in hand. Ask yourself:
What breaks my heart?
What do I wish I could change in the world?
Who or what am I drawn to help?
When your work is in service of something bigger than you, it creates a lasting sense of fulfillment.
🧭 Explore, Don’t Overthink
Purpose often reveals itself through action—not before it.
Try new things. Volunteer. Travel. Take the class. Start the project. Each step offers clues.Think of this as data-gathering for your soul.

📖 Listen to Your Life
Your life story is rich with direction. What patterns do you notice? What challenges have shaped you? What moments have felt most meaningful?
Sometimes your future purpose is hidden in your past experiences.
💬 Connect with Others
Conversations can spark clarity. Ask trusted friends: “When do you see me most lit up?”Or consider mentoring—it often shows you the gifts you have to offer.
Being in community helps reflect your brilliance back to you.
🧘♀️ Create Stillness
In the noise of everyday life, your inner voice can get drowned out.But it’s there, waiting.
Take time to pause. Meditate. Journal. Walk without your phone.Stillness creates space for your soul to speak.
💫 Embrace the Process
Purpose is not a finish line—it’s a way of living.
As you grow, your purpose will evolve too.Stay open. Stay curious. Stay compassionate with yourself.
You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
Finding what sets you on fire doesn’t require a perfect plan—just the courage to begin.Start asking different questions, taking aligned steps, and tuning in. You might just find that your purpose isn’t something you chase—it’s something you uncover.
And when you do? That’s when life really starts to glow.